ESSAY ARGUMENT
Nowadays, young marriage has become a trend among the public, especially among teenagers and students. The decision of those who choose to marry at a young age is indeed bold. Remembering they are not mature and may not be enough to prepare everything, starting from mental, educational, and economic. But they still have a strong desire to unite with their true love in a marriage with the intention of avoiding sinful acts such as promiscuity or free sex. The question arises, "is it true that young marriages have a bigger beautiful side than the bad side?" well.... Early marriage is a marriage that takes place when a child is under the age of 18. This refers to the Child Protection Act (UUPA). actually marriage at a young age doesn't benefit, instead it will do harm yourself. There are a some of negative effects of getting married young, which include medical and psychology, economics and education. In terms of medical and young psychologists who marry young, it is not beneficial for women and men. Economic problems also become a problem why not to marry young. And low education young people who marry young will find it difficult to find work.
First, medically and psychologically
1. Medically the marriages of women under the age of 20 are classified as high risk, because at that time physically they were not able to conceive perfectly because their reproductive organs had not been able to carry out their duties properly. Menstruation, is only the first sign of change from childhood to adulthood. Biologically, he can indeed get pregnant, but in fact he is not ready to get pregnant or give birth. sex at an early age can also cause uterine cancer. Because the emotional young mother is not stable, so often approached feeling tense and afraid of giving birth. While birth defects can arise due to tension during pregnancy because of the emergence of a 'refuse' attitude because the mother is not ready to conceive her baby at a young age.
2. while in a psychologist, young marriage is generally in situations and conditions that are not physically ready. easily faltered and vulnerable to divorce because their souls are still unstable, immature, do not know their responsibilities, still need guidance. Not ready to have children, so when having children, do not care, when pregnant do not pay attention to pregnancy. Overall men who are still early have an impact, generally they do not have a permanent pengahisalan to finance their household life, our culture usually depends on their parents. Young married men also do not know well what the nature and purpose of the family are, as well as their responsibilities as husbands.
Second, economic problems. The cause of early marriage in Indonesia due to economic problems. Parents consider marrying children to reduce the burden of life. a sustainable mindset in the community that considers marrying a child at an early age is a natural thing even a necessity because of tradition. However, the economic condition of adolescents in his new family is not much better than before marriage.They still have difficulty meeting food needs, and actually add to the burden on their parents. Low income sources, the increase in the number of family members ultimately gives greater economic pressure to households.
Third, education problems. When you decide to get married at an early age, surely you will indirectly stop going to school and maybe at this age you will only arrive at the Senior High School. If you do not complete this stage of education, of course you will find it increasingly difficult to get a decent job because of the cut off access to education. In the field of education, early marriage results in the child being unable to achieve higher education. If you do not complete this stage of education, of course you will find it increasingly difficult to get a decent job because of the cut off access to education. In the field of education, early marriage results in the child being unable to achieve higher education. Only 5.6% of young married teenagers are still continuing school after marriage. Can you imagine how someone without a minimum level of education is looking for a job? Certainly very difficult. Because education is one of the common standards for receiving prospective workers. If someone does not have an education that is in accordance with the qualifications, it is deemed not to have the skills and skills expected by the company.
Conclusion, young marriage is indeed permissible religiously. But there's nothing wrong if you rethink the plan. With the risks described above. Think carefully because a marriage does not only talk about two people but marriage means that everything must be ready from the economy and education, because marriage is more responsible and there will be greater problems that will come, marriage must also be able to unite the two families who have different mindsets and cultures.
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